A competitive and cutthroat look at writing
By Rose DesRochers
Let me start by saying, humor that is hurtful or at the
expense of other writers has no place in the writing industry. Board fights and
flame wars do not belong in the writing community. This should be about writing.
Online writing communities have become a cutthroat, often uncaring part of cyber
world.
In order to succeed in writing, I've always believed that we must come
together and help each other. I do not understand the attitude many writers have
adopted of stabbing their fellow writer in the back. I've always looked at the
other writing communities and other writers out there as a part of my community,
rather than competitors. I don't pretend to know everything and though I run a
writing community; I'm still learning like many of you. It is sad though that
many writers don't share the same opinions as me. They would rather compete than
bridge together. Am I the only voice saying," As a writers it is time we bridge
together as one?" “It is time that we helped one another."
Some may be looking at our community of writers and thinking," I'm not going
to join Today's Woman because it's too cutthroat and it won't be a community."
“It will be like the rest that I have joined.” Well you are wrong because we are
a community. The more I look at the bickering and flame wars on some of the
other writing communities, I have found Today’s Woman writing community to be
very supportive. We're like a big happy family as opposed to some of the other
communities, which are cutthroat and competitive or filled with trolls and
writers insulting their fellow writers.
Don't ever let anyone tell you that we don't have some exceptionally warm,
caring, and professional people who choose to submit their content to Today's
Woman. Most importantly don't let anyone tell you that you can not write. I've
enjoyed working with and getting to know the members within my community , as
well as so many others in the writing industry. Over the past two months I have
met more authors and writers with simply no values or no morals. I have seen
writing communities that were suppose to be there to help writers become
infested with bickering, name calling and flame wars.
Don't let your career go down in flames. The reason is that your reputation
speaks for you and you never have to badmouth anyone in order to make yourself
look better. The way you carry yourself speaks volumes. Don't put your
reputation on the line by getting into flame wars. I have learned that in
writing your credibility is everything. I also want to thank my husband who gave
me an important bit of advice he said, “They are critiquing you not because
there was anything wrong with your writing but it was because you wrote it." As
a writer we should never second guess our writing because of what someone said.
Professional writers will help you improve your writing not make fun of your
writing.
Also don't ever belittle another writer to save your own behind. Recently I
had the members of a well known writing community email another website, where
one of my articles were posted. They sent 43 complaints regarding my article so
that the editor of the website would remove it. One of the letters stated," The
article contained many typos, and I didn't feel the author communicated her
ideas very clearly." When I received wind of this I contacted the editor of the
website and she replied, “But I did receive no less than forty-three (43) emails
complaining about the spelling errors and the grammatical problems. That's much
higher than we are used to dealing with." "We generally don't receive complaint
emails." “The members in the forum you pointed me to are now criticizing me and
the quality of my sites." That should have been her first clue that this was
nothing more than a witch hunt to get my article removed. Therefore she fed me
to the witches instead of supporting me as a writer.
One of my own members recently submitted an article to me that had a few
spelling and grammar errors. He and I worked together to improve the errors in
his article. The article was very well written I might add. However that is
what we do as writers, we help one another. Would it not of been better for that
editor to point out that I had errors in my article and they would need to be
fixed before she could publish it on her website?
To be a successful writer you need three things: Belief in yourself, a strong
backbone and a good reputation. You can be the greatest writer ever but if you
are in the market for backstabbing and getting into flame wars on message
boards, then you might as well put up your notebook and pen and join a chat
room. There you can let your fingers run aimlessly over the keyboard as much as
you like.
I have gotten into enough flame wars on message boards defending my website
reputation and my writing. I should not half to defend my writing to anyone and
neither should you. I realize that spelling and grammar may not be one of my
best qualities however that is why we have editors. I appreciate nothing more
than someone coming to me and pointing out in a polite manner that I have a
spelling or grammar mistake. This way I may improve on the quality of my next
article.
This is a cutthroat world and they're are going to be those that tell you
that you can't write and that your publishing company is a joke and they will
take your most compassionate poem and make it resembles something they would
wipe their butt with. I have learned you need one tough back bone in this
cutthroat industry. I also have learned that the ones doing the insulting have
no more of a reputation than you in this industry. They have gone with pod
publishers or have never been published outside of the web or made some bad
career choices regarding who they published with.
In closing some advice, you need to tell yourself "I am a writer first and
foremost and I'll be damned if I ever let anyone tell me different." To the 43
writers who felt it necessary to poke fun at some serious articles that I wrote
all I can say is poke away. Some of those articles were on some serious issues,
like keeping your child safe on the internet. While you are only questioning my
grammar, spelling and the structure of my sentences; someone is reading my
article and taking my important advice to heart. That same advice might just
save their child's life. Belittle away if it makes you feel better. I write
because I love to write and I have something to say. If you don't like what I
have to say, don't read it.
Keywords: writing, fiction writing, writing communities ,publishing
,writing tips , freelance writers, writers, About the Author Rose DesRochers, Canada
admin@todays-woman.net
http://www.todays-woman.net
Rose is a published author and web columnist. She is also the founder of Today's
Woman a supportive online community for men and women over 18. Their goal is to
help writers succeed in the writing industry by offering a useful selection of
services including author interviews, regular columns, interactive forums, and a
place to share your writing for critique by your peers.
Article Source: http://www.simplysearch4it.com/article/3514.html
If you wish to add the above article to your website or newsletters then please include the "Article Source: http://www.simplysearch4it.com/article/3514.html" as shown above and make it hyperlinked. |
Some other articles by Rose DesRochers | Don't feed the Troll What is a troll? A hairy and ugly creature that lives under a bridge? Yes but there is another kind of troll they are a forum group ...
Kiss ( Keep it simple stupid) Writing your privacy policy
Not every web surface is going to understand lawyer talk. Most online privacy policies are written by lawyers and as a web user we don't know ...
|
|
|