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Domestic Violence Dr Jekyll or Mr Hyde
By Kacy Carr
Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde a two in one package, that
springs to mind every time I hear of another case of
domestic violence. How many men/women can
relate to this personality disorder in their partner?
There are no excuses for the people who inflict pain
on another human being. It was a deadly potion
concocted by the famous Dr Jekyll that led to the
actions of the notorious Mr Hyde where innocent
victims perished. For those victims there were no
choices whether they lived or died all because they
were unaware of what was around the corner.
You the victim of domestic violence have no corners
to turn, at least you know when to expect the next
punch or kick in the head. How much longer will you
go on making excuses for the broken bones and
bruises? How long before permanent damage is
done, if not already. Believe me when I say the
situation can only get worse unless you act now and
get help.
How can you ever be happy being on the receiving
end of a clenched fist and god forbid should there be
any children in this abusive relationship, I urge you
even more to get out. There will always be the nice
side to that person you once thought you knew, but
niceness is not enough to overpower evil.
You still have life for the time being; do not let anyone
speed up an early grave for you
Right now there is a fortunate patient being treated
for cuts and bruises at the AE unit spinning yarns to
cover up for their abuser. Doctors are not stupid
especially when these one off visits become regular.
Then we have the less fortunate lying on a cold
mortuary slab.
Family members and friends are the first to notice all
the signs of domestic violence, and should they voice
their opinion on the matter it is because they care
and are concerned for your safety.
Domestic violence can blind the victim into believing
that they deserve this sort of punishment. Poppycock,
no woman/man deserves to be beaten by the hands
of another.
Fear plays an important why many victims do not
take action in getting out of the abusive relationship. If
you are looking for a way out then do not hesitate to
talk to a help group. Even the law is on your side so
you see you are not alone.
Approx 1 million women a year suffer in silence at
the hands of their abuser but manage to escape with
their lives.
It is known that approx four million American women
a year experience an assault from their partners
Most common perpetrator in many domestics in the
home is the man. For your own safety listen to the
people who want to help. Believe it when I say, no
woman is as physically strong as the male species
so this is one battle you are never going to win when
it comes down to fisty cuffs.
Why put up with the torture of not knowing which
identity your partner is going take on for the night. Will
it be Jekyll or Hyde?
Back to the fear factor, you have two options. You can
continue to still live in fear and beaten or leave and
be feared with out the beatings. You get to choose.
Many of the abused who leave their partners will
always be apprehensive and in some unfortunate
cases where the victim is mentally scarred may live
in fear for the rest of their lives. But with the help of
family friends and help groups the fear can become a
thing of the past. Claim back your pride with help and
guidance then maybe you can go out and live your
life to the full.
Help groups deal with domestic violence on a daily
basis and are there to help you in your fight for
liberation.
Love is a misunderstanding between two fools I have
heard say, and in an abusive relationship one gets to
be an idiot. You have the idiot who slays or the idiot
who stays.
Check my information page if you feel the time is
right to make a stand and get out.
About the Author
The pain caused to innocent victims is too much to bear for family and friends. If intervention can save a life then intervene, Talk to the victim and if all fails, god only knows you tried. Tips on my information page http://www.benidormbeaches.com
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