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Dating and Getting What YOU Want
By Robert Torrey
Getting what you want in life takes desire and determination.
Be selfish, but in a GOOD way! Be selfish while being giving. It is not about you being nice to other people it is about you being nice to yourself!
Positive and productive respectfullness simply means that you have an attitude of always expecting only the best for yourself. It means that you are there to get what YOU want, and that you don't bother putting yourself in situations where you don't get what you want.
You are respectful and cordial without kissing up, being submissive, or seeking approval. If you start to repect yourself than others will to.
Composure = always keeping your cool. This can be difficult in intense situations where you feel out of control. but it is of supreme importance that you do so. If you lose your composure, you also lose your power and control over the situation and you hand it right back to the person you are after.
When somebody tries to provoke you and you stay cool, you cause their game to backfire on them and you have even more power!
Never be apologetic. Be polite but stand your ground and carry your calm, cool, composed demeanor through to the very end.
Be picky. This goes back to being selfish in a positive way. When you're picky, you are the one who judges and who you choose to spend your time with. People must EARN the right to your time! In conversation, let others know where your boundaries are and set them.
Be judgmental. This is not meant in a negative way oe being judgmental implies that YOU are the ultimate authority. You have the final say in everything and you don't let others make decisions for you.
Never accept second-class behavior. NEVER accept it. Be willing to walk away from anyone who disrespects you.
Have the attitude that you won't just take whatever is available to you. Demonstrate that you're patient and will wait for something of value.
Have the attitude that the other person is always getting the better end of the deal when you meet. In other words, by meeting with you, they have more to gain from you than you can gain from them.
You live in YOUR reality, no one else's! Say it to yourself!
When you are on a date. She or He is a guest in YOUR reality! by Robert Torrey
About the Author
Robert Torrey is a dating coach for Fidentia. A company that teaches dating confidence to men. Subscribe to their free newsletter offer tips and ideas for men on how to meet women, get over the fear of approaching women, and EASY ways to get dates with beautiful women. Http://http://www.fidentia.org/newsletter.htm
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