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A guide to dating
By Jeff Lakie
People in long-term relationships, whether they are married or dating,
often complain about getting into a rut. Your relationship may have
started off with the great burst of passion and excitement but perhaps it
began to wane because life is busy and work can where you out by the
end of the day.
If you're in a dating relationship that seems to be in a rut, or wonder
why you can't keep a long term relationship exciting anymore, perhaps
you need to go back to the beginning. That doesn't mean you need to
break up with your current partner and find someone new, it means
you need to refresh the relationship with exciting and spontaneous
activities.
When you look back on a period of your life, what is it that you
remember? Is it the average day-in, day-out activities? Not likely. It is
more likely those fun and spur-of-the-moment times when you did
things that were hilarious or scary or new. That's what it means to go
back to the beginning of a relationship, when everything you do is
spontaneous and new.
Next time you and your girlfriend or boyfriend are deciding to do
something on Friday, don't settle for dinner-and-a-movie. Do
something different! Here are some ideas:
Play paintball
Rent a classic car
Go skydiving
Have a picnic
Or surprise your date with something spontaneous:
Start a water fight
Go for a romantic boat ride and tip the boat
Blindfold your date and take them somewhere they never been
Surprise your date at work just as they're finishing up for the day
Relationships fail for many reasons. One of the saddest reasons is that
people simply drift apart because the other person doesn't excite them
anymore. It doesn't have to be that you're your relationship, whether
dating or married, can thrive when it is filled with adventures that the
two of you share as you build memories together.
You'll look back on your time together with fondness as you consider
the many fun and spontaneous things you did together. But doing those
things is a choice. Choose to return to the beginning of your
relationship and have fun again!
About the Author
Jeff Lakie is the founder of Dating Resources a website providing information on Dating
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