Dating - The Fun And Easy Way
By Becky Mentyra
Many people around the world have interesting stories to
tell to their friends when it comes to dating. Some stories
would be so humorous that they would draw peels of laughter
when narrated. To have a successful date, it is absolutely
essential that one is clear headed about the aim of the
date.
The modern times have seen many innovations in every field.
The same could be applied to dating. Single men and women
have to devise ways by which their dating would be a
pleasurable experience and perils associated with it could
be avoided.
To avoid dating the wrong person, the following points
would be of immense help (though no fixed rules are
associated with dating):
1)The dating plan should be simple. Traditional methods of
dating like personal ads, dating site on the Internet
exposes you to dangerous situations or people. Telephone
interviews with a prospective date help you overcome this
situation.
2)Ask questions relating to your prospective date's
background, their workplace, residence, habits and marital
status. These questions give you important information
about your date so that dangerous situations might not
arise in the future. You also get to know the person
better.
3)Your first dating schedule should be simple and short. A
first date must last for duration of an hour or three hours
at the most. Such a dating plan would be failsafe besides
giving you the option of not prolonging a date that is not
going anywhere.
4)The dating location should be chosen carefully. It should
be chosen with mutual agreement. The location so chosen
should be public yet intimate as a crowded one would not be
of great help. A nice conversation is a prerequisite for a
successful date.
5)Ensure your safety. Always inform a close friend about
your dating plans. These include the location of the date
and your date's contact information. This is absolutely
essential as crimes such as date rape are on the rise.
6)A pledge should be made for trying the date to be
successful. This is achieved by sharing the financial
burden by both the partners. Not ensuring mutual trust and
respect creates hard feelings, which are obstacles to a
successful date.
7)Keep on dating till you find an ideal person whom you
would like to spend the rest of your life with. And this
would take some time.
So go ahead, and the best of luck! About the Author ************************************************************
Becky Mentyra is the dating specialist of
UM Dating which is a
resource for singles looking for their life partner. Visit
her site for more dating tips, articles and advice:
http://www.umdating.com
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