| |
Mommy & Baby: When Your Baby Cries
By Kirsten Hawkins
Babies cry. There's no denying this fact; it's the only form of communication they have! Deciphering which cry is which is the key, and understanding that not all crying is a bad thing is amazingly important as a parent.
Reasons for crying include:
Hunger
Tiredness
Wet
Sick
Bored
Frustrated
Out of routine
Fed too often
Just because he can (!!!)
The American Academy of Pediatrics recognizes that crying is a natural part of your baby's day; they tell parents to expect their babies to cry. Newborns can and will often cry a total of one to four hours per day. No mother can console her child every time he cries, so don't expect to be a miracle-worker and do what others cannot. Pay close attention to your baby's cries and you'll quickly be able to discern when he needs to be picked up & consoled, taken care of, or when he is better off left alone. Crying is a signal, not a judgment on your parenting skills!
The PDF parenting philosophy doesn't call for a suppression of all crying, understanding that not all crying is unhealthy, but the prevention of the crying can be very detrimental to both baby and parents as the child grows. PDF babies will move from dependence to independence because the system is built on relational security, not proximal security. Your baby will be secure in your relationship with him as you meet his needs, rather than just in the fact that you're in the same room with him. This is the sort of security parents want to infuse in their children to promote healthy bonding and independence as they grow.
Abnormal cry times include the following:
During feedings
Immediately after feedings
At times when the baby wakes early out of a sound nap
Crying at one of these times deserves immediate attention. Don't wait for the crying to subside, investigate it quickly, looking for the root of the cause.
Normal cry times include the following:
o Just before feeding
o When baby is put down to nap
o During the late afternoon/early evening period (many babies are fussy at this time of day)
Without understanding your baby's cry patterns, you'll always be second-guessing at his need or desire. Do not ignore your baby's cry if you cannot pinpoint the root of it, but comfort him. Sometimes he just wants you, and that's okay! Part of your job as mommy is to soothe your baby and reassure him that you are here to meet his needs.
About the Author
Kirsten Hawkins is a baby and parenting expert specializing new mothers and single parent issues. Visit http://www.babyhelp411.com/ for more information on how to raising healthy, happy children.
Article Source: http://www.simplysearch4it.com/article/10318.html
| If you wish to add the above article to your website or newsletters then please include the "Article Source: http://www.simplysearch4it.com/article/10318.html" as shown above and make it hyperlinked. |
| Some other articles by Kirsten Hawkins | What Is A Repositioning Cruise?
What is a repositioning cruise, and why would you want to go on one? Well, you might not want to, but there are many reasons why you would or would not ...
The Cruise For You
You may have heard stories from friends about their disappointing cruise experience because their kids were bored. Or your recently married cousin's honeymoon cruise was nerve-wracking ...
The Allure Of An Alaskan Cruise
Humpback whales. Sailing fjords. Gazing at glaciers. These are some of the reasons people name when asked why they are booking an Alaskan cruise. The allure of Alaska is the ...
Take Two On Cruise Travel Tips
Pay attention to the advice from frequent cruise travelers. They have seen it all and have the stories to tell. Using their guidance can make things a bit easier for an inexperienced ...
Taking A Cruise: Make It A Family Affair
This past year, more than one million youngsters under the age of 18 years old sailed on Cruise Lines International Association ships. Young people make up a large portion ...
Taking A Cruise: Getting Out Of The Lower Deck Cabins
Taking a cruise for the first time can be one of the most exciting ventures you may take upon yourself. Cruises are ...
|
|
| |
|
|
|
