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How to Overcome the Resistance to Change
By Jorge Fernandez de Cordova
Most people cling desperately to the past. They hang on to what's familiar, snuggling ever deeper into their comfortable routines to avoid the frightening thought of change.
Change always means giving up something, and the greater the personal sacrifice the more you feel like dragging your feet.
People also defend the old way of doing things, because that makes them feel more in control. They battle against change out of fear of the future, not because they love their past.
You don't have to feel that change is bad. Successful people understand that without change, there is no gain.
That's INSANITY.
The definition of insanity as quoted by one of the greatest minds this world had ever seen, Albert Einstein says:
"Insanity is doing the same thing over and over, expecting a different result."
What is the thing keeping you from change? Could it be fear to the uncertain?
There will be no great change without stretch, and there will be no stretch without change.
The bottom line is this,
Resisting change does more harm than good.
If you really want more in your life, whatever might be, perhaps more family time, or more free time, or more money, etc.
You have to start making changes to your life RIGHT NOW!!!
Remember
"If you keep doing what you have been doing, you will keep getting what you had been getting."
How exciting is that?
Are you completely satisfied with your current life right now, with the freedom you have, with the money you make, with the last 5 years of your life?
If you don't make a change, don't you think the next five years of your life will be the same?
Is that what you really want?
Today, right now you are going to make a very important decision.
You can decide to make a change, and start taking control of your life, of your finances, and your freedom.
Or
You can close this message right now, move on with your life and pretend that nothing happened.
You are going to choose RIGHT NOW!!
What is it that you want?
For Your Success,
Jorge Fernandez de Cordova
Success Coach
www.successismylife.com
About the Author
Jorge's Mission is to give those that truly desire it; the tools and the knowledge to get the most out of life helping you achieve your goals and dreams.
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