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How Do You Feel About Yourself? Honestly...
By Jorge Fernandez de Cordova
The size of your goals will increase in proportion to your self-esteem. What do I mean by that?
When you have low self-esteem, all you attract is negative situations and influences to your life, and that eventually will prevent you from reaching your goals.
How do you feel around your clients if you have a business, or deal with clients? What about in a relationship?
Take a close look and you will discover that you only associate with people you feel worthy of being with. This include your personal relations with friends as well.
Most people look at rich and successful people with fear. WHY? Well is because of their self-esteem. They feel powerless, unworthy, and that is exactly what you will attract to your life.
Take a look at your possessions, even the money you make. Why don't you ask for more? Because you feel you don't deserve it. You dram to yourself that which you feel you are worthy of receiving, whether is the car you drive, the clothes you wear, the home you live in.
The bottom line is that the quality of your life is determined by your self-esteem or self-worth.
What kind of labels are you putting to yourself?
Everyone puts labels on them and we have them in bunch. We call ourselves "shy, warm, friendly, good leader, short-tempered, lazy, poor, etc, etc…" and the list goes on.
You must be careful on how do you talk to yourself. Words are powerful. You can do more damage to a person with words, than with a punch.
So how do you talk to yourself?
Do you auto-destruct or do you help yourself.
The universe doesn't distinguish between good or bad, right or wrong, and whatever is that you are telling yourself you will get, for example; Have you ever hear people saying "I never have money, I can't go because I don't have any money, I can't buy it because it's too expensive and I don't have the money, etc, etc." right? So what happens to this people? They keep telling the universe "I don't have money" and when they get it, the universe says "I remember now… you don't have money" and your money disappears in useless stuff.
Instead change the way you talk to yourself. The easiest way is to talk to yourself and act as if you already have it. Ok, ok you might think I'm going crazy now, and you probably won't even believe it, but the thing is this. If you keep doing what you have been doing. You will keep getting what you have been getting.
Picture yourself already living like you want to live, with the money you would like to have, how do you see yourself living that life? See it in your mind and feel the emotion as if you already own it.
My challenge for you is this. Do it for 30 days two times a day. I'm going to warn you, a lot of people quit way too soon before starting. Try it, take the challenge and see what happens. The worst thing that can happen is that for 30 days you will start becoming clearer on what is it that you want and you will find the real you hiding inside.
Do it and let me know what happened.
For your Success,
Jorge Fernandez de Cordova
Success Coach
www.successismylife.com
About the Author
Jorge's Mission is to give those that truly desire it; the tools and the knowledge to get the most out of life helping you achieve your goals and dreams.
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