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Relationshop Advice: Start Over
By Amanda Johnson
Fights are the spice of life. Have you ever seen a relationship that goes without an argument, difference of choice or difference in opinion? Imagine a relationship with no fights, no arguments and no difference in choices. Doesn't it sound unrealistic! If you think it to be true and have seen such couples then there can be two possibilities either the partners are not honest with each other or they do not belong to this world. Actually the truth is that every relationship does face fights and conflicts.
It has been rightly said "no life without spice". No relationship looks complete without these fights, arguments and difference in choices. Yet at times this flavor gets a little too much and spoils the recipe of life. There are few or perhaps no way to restore the spoilt dish but there is always a way out to rebuild a spoilt relationship.
In the beginning every relationship is bliss. The relationship is sweet, sugary, beautiful and loveable. You seem to have entered in heaven. Everything is exciting and new. You love everything in your partner. The dress up, the talks, the habits and everything your partner does and visa versa. But as time passes you start finding faults with each other. You don't like his or her outfit and you don't find his or her talk interesting any more. There is a long list of "I don't like about you". You are doing nothing but nagging each other. It is very easy to break of a relationship and very difficult to maintain it but it is much more difficult to start over with the broken relationship. Yet it is very important to start over with a broken relationship especially when you have the responsibilities of your children.
Start over again. What all you need to do is, to have patience and be forgiving. Forgive and start afresh. Try and find faults with you and it will be easy for you to forgive. Forgiveness heals the wound and tolerance enhances the depth of your relationship.
It is amazing to fall in love but at the same time it is like being in hell when you split apart. Therefore it is a must to save your relation to be in heaven all your life. And for that you have to revitalize your relationship and get that excitement back. Remember the moments that made you both happy, remember what he/she loved most about you. Make an effort to revive those moments back.
Don't run off but face the problem no matter how tensed the situation is. You have to stick together as it is involves you, your partner and your family. You have to take a step forward and make your partner understand the fault between both of you, you have to sit together and sort out problems between the two of you. Try to do things that bring excitement in your life. Improving your relationship is not a long process. It is a single little step taken by you does wonders. You will find your relationship blooming beautifully as ever.
But if things are very grave, your partner is violent and you are 100% sure that you cannot move with the relationship any further, then there is no need to stick along in remorse and pain. You can always start all over again. Off course it is difficult to forget the past and it is an obstacle in your way to a new relationship. What you need to do is to give time to yourself, involve in hobbies and activities that please you. Socialize, or do something creative that releases your heart from the pain you are going through. After a period of time you yourself will want to start a new relationship with no previous fears and pains. The bereavement including shocks, pain anger all disappear when you give space to yourself and believe in yourself.
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