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The Danger Of Negative Thinking
By Kevin Quigley
As you have shown an interest in starting a business
of your own it would be safe to assume that you want
to change your life. You want more money - more control
over your life - more respect. But just as we each have
a dream, we also have a reality.
Unfortunately for most people, the reality bears no
similarity whatsoever to the dream. In many cases,
the dream exists as an escape from the reality.
Think now of YOUR reality - the life you lead every day.
What do you do? How do you feel as you awake? Do you
have any enthusiasm for your way of life? Do you enjoy
your work, or are you on welfare? Then ask yourself
this important question: Do you resent having to live
this way?
If you answer 'yes' to that question, then you are in
danger of succumbing to the most destructive human
emotion - Hate.
If you hate the life you live, the people you deal with,
the actions you are forced to take, then you will find
yourself rapidly rushing toward disaster. When you hate,
you may as well be drunk! You no longer function in a
creative manner. Your mind is geared toward destruction.
Instead of aiming to create a new life for yourself and
those you love, you will become obsessed with the act of
revenge.
The more that you hate the people and situations around you,
the more your mind becomes poisoned with the purpose of
getting even. Logical thought becomes impossible and hate
then becomes a substitute for action. You must learn NOW,
to resist the urge to hate. It achieves nothing constructive
and it will destroy both you and your dreams of success.
As Ghandi said..."An eye for an eye just makes the whole
world go blind."
Take a good look at your way of life. Do you always have to
make do with what you have got, because you can't afford a
replacement? Are you always having to put off paying bills
until next week? Have you never enough money to enjoy
yourself? Are you unhappy with the area in which you
live?
You may find that you are regularly having to write a check
on Monday and hope that you will be able to cover it by Thursday.
Or you may just be sick of the daily grind of early mornings,
or the regular nightshift. If most of these apply to you, the
you probably hate living this way. So now make a POSITIVE effort
to achieve success. Only through positive endevour and thought
will you achieve your goal.
Although your current way of life may be hard, think not how to
get rid of it, but how to REPLACE it with a better way of life.
Think SUCCESS - not revenge. Assess what you resent about your
life now.
You may even resent the things that you would normally enjoy,
were your circumstances different. Occassions like Christmas,
birthdays, and Easter can can be trying times when you have
no money to spend. Children don't understand the restrictions
of a tight budget, and it can cause great distress to a parent
who is unable to give his child the gift, or day out, that they
would like. Now imagine the difference in these circumstances
when you have achieved success and you are wealthy.
There is no harm in imagining the difference your wealth will
make to your lifestyle - but approach it lightheartedly.
Say to yourself: I will work to be a success so that I can
tell my boss where to stick his job! And so I can see the
look on the Bank managers face when I tell him not to bother
offering me overdraft facilities anymore! This attitude is
positive, but don't hate the way things are, or the people
it involves. That would only make things worse. You will
have plenty of time to reflect on your past when you are
wealthy!
These things that make you miserable and depressed will
be all behind you when you put the secrets of success to
work. Imagine life without all these trying times. You will
be able to enjoy Christmas, and give your kids what they want.
That squillion function, water-resistant, solar-powered gizmo
(that they ALWAYS wanted) will be a drop in the ocean to you!
Many of the people who buy books on starting a business actually
don't bother starting up. They can't imagine themselves ever
running their own business and earning Unlimited amounts of money.
They never see things how they CAN be - only how they are.
Don't make this mistake! KNOW what you want, KNOW how to get
it, SEE how it WILL be, and then go for it!!
Yours in success,
Kevin Quigley
P.S.
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About the Author
Kevin Quigley is the Publisher/Editor
of 'The Internet Affiliates Resources Directory'
where subscribers have the opportunity to have
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