How to Genuinely Enjoy Cold Calling
By Ari Galper
Most of us dread our days of making cold calls. We take a deep breath, pump
ourselves up, and prepare to talk with a perfect stranger. Is there any wonder
a gray cloud sometimes hangs over our desk? It really doesn't have to be this
way. Cold calling can be an interesting, intriguing, fulfilling adventure.
Five perspectives that will (honestly!) create enjoyment in your cold calling
that will give you an entirely new outlook on cold calling. When you apply
these new perspectives, cold calling can actually be enjoyable. It can become
personally fulfilling as well as financially rewarding.
1. Focus on Helping the Other Person
It¡¯s against our nature as human beings to create an uncomfortable situation
with another person. That¡¯s the core reason many of us get that knot in our
stomach when we start dialing a cold call.
When we¡¯re only focused on making the sale, this is not a natural meeting
place for both people. We want the sale, but the other person usually wants us
to go away. Being intrusive is not the finest of character traits, and on some
level we know it.
So how can we feel good about cold calling? We change our mindset from
getting the sale into being helpful. We look at cold calling as an opportunity to
How can we possibly feel uncomfortable doing that? Helping people is one of
the best character traits we possess.
When cold calling is aligned with our very best way of being, it becomes an
adventure. We truly want to help people. We feel very good about this, and it
shows in our voice. People hear it. And their response will surprise you.
2. Be Honest and Truthful
You¡¯re in a very good place when you choose to be truthful in your cold
calling. If you¡¯re not trying to fool anyone, you naturally feel better about
making the call. You know that you¡¯re trustworthy. And people respond to you
in a positive way.
When you approach a potential client with integrity and common sense, you¡¯re
more personable and less tense. Being fully honest is one of your better
attributes. And it gives you an opportunity to enjoy the interaction rather than
being artificial or manipulative.
People do seem to have a sixth sense about integrity. When they feel you can
be trusted, you can truly shine as a person as well as a potential supplier.
3. Be Yourself
Engage people in natural conversation. The more natural you are, the more
comfortable you will feel. This makes the other person feel more comfortable
Avoid playing a role, especially reading from a script. Most people can tell
when you¡¯re using a script. There¡¯s nothing personal about it, and they pick up
Being artificial puts you in the ¡°typical salesperson¡± category, which is exactly
the role most of us detest. It doesn¡¯t feel authentic. And unless you¡¯re a born
actor, it makes you feel skittish about cold calling.
Give yourself permission to follow the rhythm of natural interaction. Allow the
conversation to ¡°breathe.¡± Let it be the kind of conversation you would have
with a friend.
Practice this and it can turn your cold calls into pleasant conversations. And
you may actually look forward to meeting that new person the next time you
pick up the phone.
4. Get into the Other Person¡¯s World
Shift your mindset away from what you have to offer and focus instead on what
their problem is.
So many of us have been trained think about our services and products, that
we don¡¯t think about the client¡¯s point of view. We aren¡¯t really interested in
their issues and how we can help solve them.
Be interested in their world and their challenges. You¡¯ll find this intriguing.
Most of us have a natural flair for problem solving. We enjoy ¡°fixing things.¡±
So find out what¡¯s going on with the person you¡¯re talking to.
Make sure the solution you have really does ¡°fix it.¡± Get rid of any hidden
agendas and truly listen. Let them know you¡¯re interested in them and their
Move outside your own sales agenda to focus on the needs of others. This
makes you a better human being and helps you leap past the fear of cold
5. Let Go of Expectations
Never assume anything beforehand. Allow the conversation to be one of
exploration and discovery. Stay focused on the dialogue instead of any
Determine whether it makes sense to continue the conversation by truly
listening. Never presume your prospect should buy what you have to offer,
even when it seems they¡¯re a perfect fit.
You are not calling to create a situation that is focused on your personal gain,
but on helping the other person. Simply have a conversation to explore
whether you can help them in some way. This takes pressure off both of you.
You¡¯ll be more relaxed and they¡¯ll be more honest about where they stand.
Believe me, once you start applying these perspectives it will transform your
day-to-day worklife. Instead of dreading cold calling, you¡¯ll anticipate the
adventure of creating a situation where everybody wins.
About the Author
Ari Galper, founder of Unlock The Cold Calling Game, makes cold calling painless and simple. Learn his cold calling secrets even the sales gurus don't know. To receive your 10 free audio mini-lessons visit http://www.Unlock-The-Cold-Calling-Game.com
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